How to Be Perfect (It’s not what you think!)

How to Be Perfect (It’s not what you think!)

This is likely a scary thought for many people. It used to scare me. I didn’t think I could ever get there, no matter how hard I tried. But I tried, day after day I would give it my best shot. And day after day I would fail.

This was very frustrating for me because I really wanted to obey God and please Him. I wanted Him to be proud of me. So I was relieved and encouraged when I finally understood what Jesus meant when He said we should be perfect.

Matthew 5:48 says it like this: “You, therefore, must be perfect growing into complete maturity of godliness in mind and character, having reached the proper height of virtue and integrity, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

You see, when you become a Christian you begin a lifetime journey of continually growing in right behavior. And throughout my life, I’ve had a lot of growing to do.

 

Overcoming What Stunts Your Growth

If you’ve heard my testimony, You know I was born without my legs and a right arm. As a result, I thought I was a worthless piece of trash. I felt unloved because I was used, picked on, and looked different. And when I couldn’t get the help that I needed, I felt abandoned. I also felt guilty, like it was partly my fault for the way I was.

All of this mess will put shame, blame, disgrace, disapproval and a disrespectful attitude toward yourself. I was angry, insecure, controlling, suspicious of others and hard to get along with. I was miserable and wanted to change. God revealed to me that I couldn’t do it in my own strength. Neither can you.

It doesn’t do any good to accept Christ as your Savior and then try to change yourself. The first step to successfully begin growing into complete maturity of godliness in mind and character is to really understand who you are in Christ. It is vitally important to know this before you try to change your behavior because apart from God, we can do nothing.

Also, God doesn’t expect you to do it on your own. He will never ask us to do something without giving us the ability to do it.

When we are born again, He cleanses our spirit. At this point, it’s like a seed and needs to grow for us to really experience the fruit of it. We have to learn to live inside out. What I mean by this is we have to learn how to cooperate with the Holy Spirit little by little, obeying His direction for our life, and progressively, our behavior will change.

 

Proceed with Caution

The Holy Spirit is our helper and counselor who guides us into the truth. One way He does this is by convicting us of sin. Conviction is not usually thought of in a positive light, but it’s actually a wonderful gift God gives us because without it, we won’t grow in our relationship with God.

“ Don’t let a bad attitude or the devil steal the blessing of a correction in your life. ”

Conviction happens when the Holy Spirit lets us know in our heart that we’re doing something wrong. It’s the warning signal to stop, repent and turn around. Like the yellow light is the caution signal in traffic, conviction from the Holy Spirit is the caution signal in our life. And when we feel it, we should thank God for helping us do what’s right.

As you grow in your walk with God, you’ll notice that you become more sensitive to the promptings of the Holy Spirit when you have wrong behavior. 

I’ve also had times when I felt like I couldn’t get away with anything. Have you ever thought, I can’t do anything. Every time I turn around, I’m doing something else wrong? We need to be careful when we have these thoughts and feelings because the gift of conviction can become condemnation to us if we let it.

Don’t let a bad attitude or the devil steal the blessing of correction in your life. The truth is, whatever God tells you to do is for your benefit and because He loves you. And although we’re all in the process of growing into complete maturity in mind and character, God loves and accepts us as we are right now.

 

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